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New York-based writer Emily Liebert released her debut book last week, Facebook Fairytales: Modern-Day Miracles to Inspire the Human Spirit," a collection of 25 inspirational stories made possible through people's Facebook connections. I recently talked with Emily about the book and the stories of triumphs and... struggles that most struck a nerve with her. In future blog posts, we'll be sharing excerpts of the fairytales.
My inspiration was my fascination with Facebook and how it's revolutionizing modern society. I joined in the summer of 2008, and at first my intentions were purely voyeuristic. I was one of those people who read other people's posts but never updated my own status. Eventually, like the hundreds of millions of other users, I got sucked in, and I really started thinking about the cultural impact of social networking, specifically Facebook.
It occurred to me that there had to be some amazing stories evolving from these hundreds of millions of connections. I decided that someone needed to write a book sharing these stories and who better than me?

So I decided to reach out to Facebook's press department to see if users had shared stories with them. They had. Thousands, in fact. Facebook immediately passed along the story of a young mother in Scarsdale, N.Y., Beth, who'd received a kidney from a young mother in Tallahassee, Fla., Cathy, via a mutual friend's status update. Cathy absolutely saved Beth's life even though they were complete strangers, living over 1,000 miles away. And I thought, wow, that's one of those goose bump stories. It was amazing to think that something as simple as a Facebook status update could have a hand in saving someone's life. That's when I started digging some more.
Through my own online research, along with significant support from Facebook, I was able to find the 25 miraculous stories that made it into the book. Though it was really the kidney donor story and a great romantic story that initially launched the concept.
The romantic story is called "Summer Love." It follows Roni Tropper and Allen Applbaum, who'd originally met at summer camp when they were teenagers. They'd briefly reconnected in college, but hadn't stayed in touch after that. Years later, they reconnected again on Facebook and now they're getting married.
What I love about their story is that it's complex. They weathered a lot of ups and downs to be together. Many times, despite the fact that fate seemed to be pushing them together, it seemed that their relationship might not work out. Had it not been for Facebook, it probably wouldn't have.
I know this sounds simple, but I believe the common theme is happiness. The book features personal triumphs, business feats, and political coups—generally speaking—modern-day miracles. And, in one way or another, Facebook is responsible for infusing happiness into these situations when other prospects seemed dim.
The elaborate domino effect of social networking continues to intrigue and inspire me. In today's society, it feels like everyone is super busy and swamped all the time, and I think the stories in this book really remind people that the resilience of the human spirit is powerful. And that when given the opportunity, people do the right thing or open themselves up in a very positive way, as in the case of the kidney donor.
The story "Waiting for Baby" is one of my favorites. It's about a couple, Seth and Melissa Edlavitch, who had been trying to conceive a baby for years. They'd experienced a tragic stillbirth of twins and had undergone multiple IVF (in vitro fertilization) cycles. Melissa's sister had even acted as a surrogate, but nothing was producing the outcome they so desired—to be parents. So they decided to pursue adoption, which can be a very long and expensive process.
One night on a whim, Seth converted an adoption flyer they'd made to a JPEG and posted it on Facebook. Through the domino effect of social networking, two months later, they took home a baby boy.
One of the other stories that really resonated with me is called "Heaven Sent." It's not your typical fairytale, because it's about a family in Alabama who lost their teenage daughter, Jessica Elkins, very suddenly to meningitis at Christmas time a couple of years ago.
Not only were they able to create a cause page and a group on Facebook to help raise money and awareness for meningitis, but the really touching Facebook aspect to the story—and the reason I chose to include it in a book of fairytales—is that Jessica's father has used Facebook as his means of coping with his grief over the loss of his daughter. He was her friend on the site, and for the past two years, has written her a Facebook message every single day.
It's what helps him get through each day. He also keeps in touch with her friends on the site, which allows him to feel connected to Jessica. So while this may not seem like a "happily-ever-after" kind of story, again, Facebook infused some happiness into an otherwise awful situation.
Matt, a manager on Facebook's communications team, is becoming a fan of Facebook Fairytales on Facebook.
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See MoreNew York-based writer Emily Liebert released her debut book last week, Facebook Fairytales: Modern-Day Miracles to Inspire the Human Spirit," a collection of 25 inspirational stories made possible through people's Facebook connections. I recently talked with Emily about the book and the stories of triumphs and... struggles that most struck a nerve with her. In future blog posts, we'll be sharing excerpts of the fairytales.
What inspired "Facebook Fairytales" and the writing of this book?
My inspiration was my fascination with Facebook and how it's revolutionizing modern society. I joined in the summer of 2008, and at first my intentions were purely voyeuristic. I was one of those people who read other people's posts but never updated my own status. Eventually, like the hundreds of millions of other users, I got sucked in, and I really started thinking about the cultural impact of social networking, specifically Facebook.
It occurred to me that there had to be some amazing stories evolving from these hundreds of millions of connections. I decided that someone needed to write a book sharing these stories and who better than me?
As you were investigating the idea for the book, did you run across any specific story that provided the "aha" kind of moment that this was really a great idea and something that could be done?

Liebert
Initially, when I started looking for stories, I posted a query to my Facebook Wall detailing my idea for the book, and I asked my friends to repost the query. I thought, "Wouldn't it be fitting if I could find all the stories through my own Facebook connections?" And I probably could have. But they wouldn't have been the 25 absolute best or most diverse stories. I did find a couple this way, and they were quite good, but they didn't provide that "aha" moment.So I decided to reach out to Facebook's press department to see if users had shared stories with them. They had. Thousands, in fact. Facebook immediately passed along the story of a young mother in Scarsdale, N.Y., Beth, who'd received a kidney from a young mother in Tallahassee, Fla., Cathy, via a mutual friend's status update. Cathy absolutely saved Beth's life even though they were complete strangers, living over 1,000 miles away. And I thought, wow, that's one of those goose bump stories. It was amazing to think that something as simple as a Facebook status update could have a hand in saving someone's life. That's when I started digging some more.
Through my own online research, along with significant support from Facebook, I was able to find the 25 miraculous stories that made it into the book. Though it was really the kidney donor story and a great romantic story that initially launched the concept.
Which one was the romantic story?
The romantic story is called "Summer Love." It follows Roni Tropper and Allen Applbaum, who'd originally met at summer camp when they were teenagers. They'd briefly reconnected in college, but hadn't stayed in touch after that. Years later, they reconnected again on Facebook and now they're getting married.
What I love about their story is that it's complex. They weathered a lot of ups and downs to be together. Many times, despite the fact that fate seemed to be pushing them together, it seemed that their relationship might not work out. Had it not been for Facebook, it probably wouldn't have.
Did you find as you were doing the research to discover these stories that any specific themes were emerging?
I know this sounds simple, but I believe the common theme is happiness. The book features personal triumphs, business feats, and political coups—generally speaking—modern-day miracles. And, in one way or another, Facebook is responsible for infusing happiness into these situations when other prospects seemed dim.
One way or another, Facebook is responsible for infusing happiness into these situations when other prospects seemed dim.
The elaborate domino effect of social networking continues to intrigue and inspire me. In today's society, it feels like everyone is super busy and swamped all the time, and I think the stories in this book really remind people that the resilience of the human spirit is powerful. And that when given the opportunity, people do the right thing or open themselves up in a very positive way, as in the case of the kidney donor.
On a personal level, what were some of the other stories that stood out to you?
The story "Waiting for Baby" is one of my favorites. It's about a couple, Seth and Melissa Edlavitch, who had been trying to conceive a baby for years. They'd experienced a tragic stillbirth of twins and had undergone multiple IVF (in vitro fertilization) cycles. Melissa's sister had even acted as a surrogate, but nothing was producing the outcome they so desired—to be parents. So they decided to pursue adoption, which can be a very long and expensive process.
One night on a whim, Seth converted an adoption flyer they'd made to a JPEG and posted it on Facebook. Through the domino effect of social networking, two months later, they took home a baby boy.
One of the other stories that really resonated with me is called "Heaven Sent." It's not your typical fairytale, because it's about a family in Alabama who lost their teenage daughter, Jessica Elkins, very suddenly to meningitis at Christmas time a couple of years ago.
Not only were they able to create a cause page and a group on Facebook to help raise money and awareness for meningitis, but the really touching Facebook aspect to the story—and the reason I chose to include it in a book of fairytales—is that Jessica's father has used Facebook as his means of coping with his grief over the loss of his daughter. He was her friend on the site, and for the past two years, has written her a Facebook message every single day.
It's what helps him get through each day. He also keeps in touch with her friends on the site, which allows him to feel connected to Jessica. So while this may not seem like a "happily-ever-after" kind of story, again, Facebook infused some happiness into an otherwise awful situation.
Matt, a manager on Facebook's communications team, is becoming a fan of Facebook Fairytales on Facebook.
Tip: Share your stories here with us about interesting and inspiring ways you use Facebook.



